No relationship is all sunshine, but two people can share one umbrella and survive the storm together.
It really wasn’t a bother. I’ve been told much worse and that message really just made me laugh out loud. Yeah, I’m sure they were jealous of my Queenly awesomeness.
Haha thank you for your input. Too bad I am a queen and am unfazed by your suggestion.
I am going to take my time to respond to this subject this once and afterwards I will refer everyone to this ask.
I’m taking this moment right here, right now, to say I am no longer identifying as a lesbian. The reason I clung so desperately to the title was because it was the first thing that I felt could describe me, ever. But it was also wrong. And maybe it wasn’t at the time. This is part of the reason I don’t like labels on sexuality very much. Why should I have to define who I am attracted to and be held accountable to that definition for the rest of my life.
Do not think this means I am straight. I’m not. I am attracted to girls, but I believe that I am also attracted to guys. I am more apt to connect emotionally with a woman though and I think that is why it was easier for me to say I was a lesbian because the emotional aspect was so important to me.
Tumblr puts a lot of stress on labels and how you identify and I understand that to many people it gives them a sense of belonging and a name and something to stand upon. However, that is not what it is for me.
So, right here, right now, I am saying that I am queer. I say this because for one, I am both attracted to men and women and secondly because I don’t identify as either man or woman exclusively. My gender expression slides along a scale. I am non-binary.
This has been an extremely difficult subject to get all my thoughts out about and I haven’t even begun to scratch the surface with this post. However, none of my sexual identity matters to anybody else because I am in a committed relationship. Which means, whatever I identify as doesn’t have any standing. I don’t welcome advances from either sex/non-binary and I do not look towards other people. I may appreciate someone’s attractiveness but I’m not hopping into bed with them or even considering anyone besides my boyfriend.