I Am Batman

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Anonymous said: That anon who says you need mental help has to back off because your personal life is none of their business. Plus, why do you need mental help? Because you get upset sometime? Because you once identified as a lesbian but are now dating a boy? If they really cared, they wouldn't be saying something was wrong for dating him because you're happy. That anon was jealous.

It really wasn’t a bother. I’ve been told much worse and that message really just made me laugh out loud. Yeah, I’m sure they were jealous of my Queenly awesomeness. 

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Anonymous said: You should seek mental help.

Haha thank you for your input. Too bad I am a queen and am unfazed by your suggestion.

Anonymous said: I dont understand how are you a lesbian with a boyfriend?

Okay,

I am going to take my time to respond to this subject this once and afterwards I will refer everyone to this ask. 

I’m taking this moment right here, right now, to say I am no longer identifying as a lesbian. The reason I clung so desperately to the title was because it was the first thing that I felt could describe me, ever. But it was also wrong. And maybe it wasn’t at the time. This is part of the reason I don’t like labels on sexuality very much. Why should I have to define who I am attracted to and be held accountable to that definition for the rest of my life. 

Do not think this means I am straight. I’m not. I am attracted to girls, but I believe that I am also attracted to guys. I am more apt to connect emotionally with a woman though and I think that is why it was easier for me to say I was a lesbian because the emotional aspect was so important to me. 

Tumblr puts a lot of stress on labels and how you identify and I understand that to many people it gives them a sense of belonging and a name and something to stand upon. However, that is not what it is for me. 

So, right here, right now, I am saying that I am queer. I say this because for one, I am both attracted to men and women and secondly because I don’t identify as either man or woman exclusively. My gender expression slides along a scale. I am non-binary.

This has been an extremely difficult subject to get all my thoughts out about and I haven’t even begun to scratch the surface with this post. However, none of my sexual identity matters to anybody else because I am in a committed relationship. Which means, whatever I identify as doesn’t have any standing. I don’t welcome advances from either sex/non-binary and I do not look towards other people. I may appreciate someone’s attractiveness but I’m not hopping into bed with them or even considering anyone besides my boyfriend. 

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This is me and Ryker. He is my other half. I don’t know if I really like that term because I am my own person and I don’t want to say I am dependent on someone else to make me whole; but honestly, sometimes that is just how it feels. Ry is my puzzle piece, my knight in shining armor, my prince charming. Every cliched and overused term in the book. He’s it. 
We’re nearing our first year anniversary soon and I just cannot believe how far we have come, both together and as individuals. I’ve grown so much over the past year and it has been wonderful. Sometimes things get difficult and there are mountains to climb, but I know that our life together is worth everything. 
I love you so much Ry. You make my life brighter. 

This is me and Ryker. He is my other half. I don’t know if I really like that term because I am my own person and I don’t want to say I am dependent on someone else to make me whole; but honestly, sometimes that is just how it feels. Ry is my puzzle piece, my knight in shining armor, my prince charming. Every cliched and overused term in the book. He’s it. 

We’re nearing our first year anniversary soon and I just cannot believe how far we have come, both together and as individuals. I’ve grown so much over the past year and it has been wonderful. Sometimes things get difficult and there are mountains to climb, but I know that our life together is worth everything. 

I love you so much Ry. You make my life brighter. 

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I wanna be that one girl who looks really cute but also gives off the vibe that she could snap your neck if you disrespect her like is that possible for me

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we all have that friend who has to ask her mother to breathe

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